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Separating your
swing from your mind is not possible. It’s like taking the
wet out of water. For that reason, any positive change in
your golf swing has to be accompanied by a change in the way
you think about your swing; it all starts in your mind.
Not long ago,
the human brain was thought of as a `black box’, unchanging,
fixed. But recent research on this `three pounds of
electrical flesh’ comes to a different conclusion; the brain
can change, and dramatically. It is plastic, malleable.
And we have the tools to direct our brain to its full
potential.
In golf, that
could mean getting rid of fear of water, or the first tee
jitters. It might mean becoming a better putter, making a
much needed swing change, or becoming more confident. You
can do these things, but in order to do so, three
requirements must be met.
1) You have
to find a way to settle the mind, to calm down emotional
upheavals and general thinking too much. This is called
mindfulness.
2) You have
to know some basics on what great technique feels like. Not
what it looks like on the surface, but deeper, to a secret
level. I call this overcoming illusions, or awareness.
3) You need
to practice. And there is a right way and a wrong way to
practice.
Did you ever
have the thought; `If only I had a great golf swing. I would
be a terrific player’. Or, `If only I could get my mind
right, I would be a contender’. How about, `I just need to
practice more’. I just don’t believe you can separate out
any one of these three factors. In future articles on this
page, I would like to go into these in more depth.
Point 1, the
Mind
Quiet Mind
`Mr. Duffy
lived a short distance from his body’. This James Joyce
line sums up the best way to mess up a golf shot. Flicker
your attention to the last shot, or the water hole coming
up, and you won’t hit the ball in front of you very well.
The Past
We tend to
carry around caskets full of dead moments- events that
already have happened. Let go of these and breathe a sigh
of relief. Birds can fly because they don’t carry
suitcases. Any thought that pulls you away from the ball in
front of you, will result in a miss.
The Future
`Whatever you
think it will be, it will always be different’, the Buddha.
It is a great waste of time to anticipate and worry about
what might happen next. Doing the best you can in this
moment will take care of the next one. There is only one
ball in front of you. Just hit that one.
The Present
There are
many techniques and ways to learn to stay in the present
moment. One is to make sure you are in your body; as they
say `come to your senses!’.
Can you feel
your skin, the blood in your veins…without thinking
Can you look at what is in front of you…without thinking?
Can you hear the sounds around you…without thinking?
It’s not that
easy. The thinking mind wants to run the show, but it
doesn’t do a good job of it, especially when it comes to
golf.
New Research
Check this
out; new research on the brain shows that 20% of mental
activity is data received from the 5 senses. The other 80%?
It’s our 3 lbs of electrical flesh just thinking; how we
spin the information we have gotten.
Emotions
Do you fear
water? Are you self-conscious on the first tee? Do you go
ballistic with anger over a bad shot?
If so, your
emotions are controlling you. They are yanking you away
from the present moment. The next shot in this state will
be a poor one. The trick to controlling fear, anger, and
the others is to stand back and watch them fr om a distance.
Notice them.
`To get rid
of your feelings, feel them’ Sigmund Freud. `Awareness
per-se is curative’ Fritz Perls. These great therapists are
telling us that negative emotions can be controlled, not by
running away from them, but by facing them head on.
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